Category: Anxiety

What is the True Cost of Freedom?


By Jerry Lankford, MBA, MACC, MDiv, LPCS

“The Spirit of the Lord is upon me,

because he has anointed me

to proclaim good news to the poor.

He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives

and recovering of sight to the blind,

to set at liberty those who are oppressed,

to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.”  — Luke 4:18-19

These words are Jesus’ Mission Statement. The rest of the Luke demonstrates how he fulfilled this mission.

I am struck by the words, “He has sent me to proclaim liberty to the captives.”  These are words that resonate strongly with us as Americans.  Yet, isn’t it much riskier to be free than we realize?

Of course, one of the best examples would be prisoners. Prisoners long for freedom, yet when they are released, they quickly realize that they must now find a place to sleep, a job, and they must feed themselves.

These would be daunting tasks for someone who has lived his life with clarity and limited choice.  There has been a designated place to sleep, no choice. There were three meals a day, no multi-page menu.  There was an assigned job to do, minimal choice.

Freedom represents an opportunity to succeed. It also presents the chance to fail.  Is it a big wonder that many manipulate their circumstances to return to prison?  I would think it may seem safer.

The Israelites had the same experience when they left Egypt.  They longed for freedom, but when they “caught” it, they began to long for the good old days.  It is risky to be free.  In fact, the only way we can handle the risk is through faith.

In my counseling practice, I see many men and women who are in captivity.  They believe their current circumstance is safer.  Bluntly, it’s safer to stay the way I am than to change. This can apply to employment, depression, addictions, and relationships.

These fears force many of us to do nothing.  As captives, we endure lives of quiet desperation because we are afraid. Indeed, fear is a cause of the mental illnesses I encounter.  Freedom requires risk.  Risk costs us something.  Thus, Freedom can be pricey.  We can’t just sit back and wait for others to take care of us.

We fought the American Revolution to win our Freedom.  We know it’s worth it.

Are you willing to fight for your Freedom?

I think the lesson, the connection between the American Revolution and our own, is that both require a band of brothers or sisters around us to help us in that fight.  You need training and preparation, but you can be free.

Build your army.

When people you can trust support you in the battle for your life, you can cement your faith.  Then, step-by-scary-step, when the Son sets you free, you are free indeed.

When the Past is a Weight on Our Shoulders

by Steven Price, MA, LPCA

 

For many, weight loss seems like a never ending battle against the scale. One day we are down a pound, the next we are up two. There are a great many challenges that keep us from reaching our goals such as daily stresses at work or in life, a lack of time for exercise, a lack of understanding about nutrition, or simply unhealthy eating habits. I’m afraid there are challenges that many never realize they are battling against as well: wounds from the past, unresolved grief, loneliness, just to name a few.

Many who suffered in childhood (separation from parents, divorce, bullying, or worse) continue to suffer into adulthood. If not healed, childhood wounds can linger, negatively impacting nearly every aspect of a person’s life including his or her work, health, emotional wellbeing, friendships, or romantic relationships. We may find ourselves living less and eating more.

The Bible says that Jesus came so we may have and experience an abundant life, or life to the full (John 10:10b), but many of us have experienced the opposite of that. Why? Because, as Jesus said in John 10:10a, “the thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy” and many of us are still living with the wounds that came at such a young age.

God wants to heal those broken or wounded places in each and every one of us, but sometimes we need a little help along that healing journey.

Whether our experiences have left us struggling with anxiety, depression, unhealthy weight gain, or unhealthy eating habits, partnering with a counselor can help you not only see, but reach the light at the end of the tunnel.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) are often used with individuals struggling with such hardships. These therapies often work well when symptoms include unhealthy weight gain and unhealthy eating habits ranging from erratic relationships with food to actual eating disorders, such as binge-eating disorder (BED). Many believe that if they aren’t suffering from a specific or diagnosed eating disorder that they do not have a problem with food, but there are many individuals who use food in an unhealthy way to cope with life rather than choosing healthier outlets, including counseling and healing. Healing from their pasts and teaching men and women better coping mechanisms can greatly impact the trajectory of their lives—including improving overall health, wellness, weight, and happiness.

Whether you are struggling with stress, anxiety, depression, wounds, or grief, there is help. By seeking good therapy and coaching from proven and effective counseling practices, we can partner together to not only heal the broken heart, but to set you on a path to greater health and happiness.

The first step is to have a conversation. We’re here for you, and we’ll walk with you throughout the journey to get rid of the unwanted weight and worry.  Just call 1-919-851-1527.  We’ll move forward together.

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